Biwi ke huqooq –

Biwi ke huqooq -Assalam alaikum readers ! agar app shohar biwi se related aur unke kya-kya huqooq hai hamare islam me aur bhi bahut kuch maslan – biwi ke huqooq shohar ke liye aur shohar ke kya farz hai apni biwi ke liye , hadees pak me miyan-biwi ka rishta kesa hona chaiye ? aaiye deenitalim.com ke is site par malumat hasil kare…

Biwi ke ke huqooq in islam –

Allah ajowazal ne jis tarah shohar yani mardon ke huqooq ke bare me farmaya hai aur voh biwi par lazim

farmaya hai thik isi tarah auraton yani

ke biwi ke liye bhi chand huqooq lazim farmaye hai

jinko pura karna har shohar par farz hai quran sharif me bhi iska

zikr mauzood hai maslan – Mohabbat in islam :

مثل الذى عليهن بالمعروف

(turzuma- auraton ke mardon ke upar isi tarah kuch huqooq hai jis tarah mardon ke auraton par acche rawaiye ke sath paish aaye)

Madina ke tajdar do alam ke sardar noor e mujassam pyare

aaqa sallallahu tala alaihi wali wasallam ka farman ibrat nishan hai ,

” tum sab me acche log voh hai jo auraton ke sath achhi tarah paish aaiye “

Aur sath hi farmaya ,

“tum logo ko auraton ke bare me waseeyat karta hun lihaza tum sabhi meri waseeyat qubool farmao”

Biwi ke huqooq  -

Shohar par kya chizein farz hai ? Biwi ke huqooq –

Har mard ko chahiye ki voh sirf or sirf apni biwi ki buri aadaton par hi najar na rakhe agar apke biwi me kuch

burai mauzood hai to usme kuch acchai bhi lazmi

taur par mauzood hogi lihaza unki acchi aadaton par bhi gaur

o fiqr kare duniya me koi shakhs mukammal ya perfect nahi hota

sabhi me kuch na kuch khami jarur dekhne ko

milti hai aur sabse aham tarin baat khabar dar ! kabhi bhi apni biwi ka

mawazna dusre auraton ke sath na kare quran sharif ka bhi mafhoom hai ,

“dusre ke jodo par hargiz najar na kare”

Shohar ke kya faraiz hai ?

hadees sharif me aaya hai ke , “koi momin mard kisi bhi momina

aurat se bugz vo hasad ya nafrat hargiz na kare

kyunki agar aurat ki koi aadat buri malum hoti ho to uski koi dusri aadat pasandeedah bhi jarur hogi”

Allah pak ne kuch auraton ke kuch huqooq mardon par lazim qarar diye hai lihaza jisne bhi ye huqooq ada na

kiya voh gunahgar aur logo ki najron me jaleel vo khawar hoga –

  • Mardon (shohar) ko chahiye ke aurat ke akhrajat
  • ( yani jeb kharch) ke bare me jayada kanjoosi hargiz na kare aur na hi jayada fijool kharch karne de apni kamai vo hesiyat ke mutabiq uski har jaruraton ko pura kare.
  • Shohar ko apni biwi ko control hargiz na kare yani use
  • char diwari ke andar ghar me qaid hargiz na rakhe balki use chahiye ki weekend ya kabhi bhi
  • jab app farig ho to time
  • nikal kar apni biwi ko ghumane firane ke liye jarur le jaye ya biwi ko apne rishtedar ke ghar aane jane
  • ki izazat de dein taki uska bhi mizaz hamesha khush vo durust rahe haan lekin chand aesi auraton se use jarur baz rakhe jinka kaam sirf or sirf gharon me ladai jhagde fasad
  • felana ho aur apni biwi ko aesi auraton se jarur dur rakhe
  • jinka kaam har waqt shohar ki burai karna hota hai.

Islam me biwi ke huqooq –

  • Agar kabhi kbhar biwi ki kisi baat ya bad-ikhlaqee ya bad-sulooqi ya kabhi shakht mizaz vagirah se shohar ko azeeyat ya takleef pahunchaye to shohar ko chahiye
  • ke sabr o tahammul se uski baat ko bardasht kar jaye aur gusse par kabu pa le.
  • Agar kisi mard ki 2 biwiyan ho ya usse jayada ho to aese shohar ko cahaiye ki apne dono biwiyon ke sath barabri ka sulooq kare us mard par farz hai ke apni sabhi
  • biwiyon ko khush rakhe aur kisi me bhi farq na kare sabki
  • jaruraton ka khayal kare hadees sharif me farmaya gaya hai
  • ke jo banda jiski 2 biwiyan ho agar voh dono ke sath barabri ka
  • sulooq nahi karega to voh shakhs qayamat ke din maidane mehshar
  • me is halat me uthaya jayega ke uska adha badan (jism) maflooz ho jayega.
  • Miyan biwi me ladai had darja badh jaye tab bhi shohar ko talaq dene me jaldi nahi karna chaiye balki apne gusse ko thande karne ki koshish kare bad dafa shohar
  • gusse me akar biwi ko talaq de deta hai aur fir bad me pachhtata firta hai.
  • Chhoti-chhoti baton par shohar ko chaiye ki apni biwi ke liye badgumani apne
  • dil na paida kare balki samajhdari ka mujahira karte hue kai baton ko najar andaz karne ki koshish kare badgumani haram hai ye yaad rakhe aur apne dil me kisi ke liye bhi na paale.

Shohar ka biwi par bharosa –

  • Shohar ko apni biwi par aitmad vo bharosa karna chahiye ghar ki
  • jimmedari use sonp de taki biwi ke andar khud-aitmadi aur waqar paida ho sake.
  • Jab kabhi biwi bimar ho jaye to shohar ka ye farz banta hai ki apni biwi ka khayal kare aur uski bimar pursi kare uske sare kaam khud kare use aaram ka mauka
  • de jitna ho sake apni biwi se miohabbat vo khush ikhlaq se paish aaye.
  • Biwi ko baat-baat par tanz karna uske maike ki burai karna
  • hamesha use ahsase kamtari ka ahsas dilana vagirah in sabhi kamon se parhez kare.
  • Koi bhi mard kabhi bhi apni biwi ke samne dusri aurat ka zikr uske husn ya uski koi bhi khoobi bayan hargiz na kare kyunki aesa karne se biwi ko
  • takleef hoti hai aur apko gunah padta hai.

Biwi ke huqooq –

  • Miyan biwi ek dure ka ahsas hamesha apne dil me zinda rakhe
  • ek dusre ki izzat kare taki apka rishta hamesha qayem rah sake.
  • Jab bhi shohar ghar se bahir safar par nikle to apni biwi se pyar -mohabbat ki batein karke nikle aur jab bhi safar se wapis aaye apni biwi
  • ke liye kuch na kuch jarur
  • laye kyunki tohfe dene se bhi mohbbat me ijafa hota hai.
  • Aurat (biwi) par bila uzr chhoti-chhoti baat par hath na uthaye
  • ( farmane rasool hai ke , koi bhi banda apni biwi ko is tarah na maare jis tarah apne ghulam ya naukar ko marta hai aur fir bad me usse sohba bhi kare)
  • Biwi ka apne shohar par ye bhi haq hai ke voh apni biwi
  • ki bistar ki baat vo uske raaz ki pardah poshi kare aur apne
  • doston me apni biwi ka zikr hargiz na kare.
  • Apni biwi ke samne maile-kuchele ya bina nahaye dhoye gandagi ki halat me uske samne na jaye isse biwi ke dil me apke liye nafrat bhi paida ho
  • sakti hai kyunki hum
  • sabhi ko safai suthrai pasand hai aur hamare islam me safai nisf iman hai.
  • biwi se mohabbat hadees , jo shakhs apni biwi ko mohabbat pash nazron se dekhta hai to allah use neki sawab ata karta hai.

Biwi par kab hath utha sakte hai?

Agar app use kisi jayez kaam ke liye rok ya mana kar rahe hai tab bhi voh apki baat ko ahmiyat nahi de rahi to

fir is surat me app use maar sakte hai ba-sharti ye hai ke aesa na mare ki

use shadeed qism ki chot lag jaye ya fir jakhm ka nishan ban jaye.

Namaz padhne me agar voh susti karti hai to pehle pyar se samjhaye fir bhi na

mane to us par hath utha sakte hai.

Isi tarah agar biwi apni saaf-suthrai ka khayal na rakhe sahi waqt par gusl bhi na kare bila uzr shobat se roke to

app us par hath utha sakte hai lekin haan pehle to use apni juban se samjhaye sakhti se use dante agar tab bhi na mane tab aap use ek laga sakte hai shohar biwi ka rishta in islam , sabse khubsurat aur munfarid hota hai.

Conclusion :-

Aaj humne sikha ki ek biwi ka apne shohar par kya-kya huqooq hai aur shohar ko apne biwi se kese paish aana chahiye wese to bahut sari chizon ke bare me hadees sharif me bayan farmaya gaya hai

lekin hum yahan chand

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