Behtarin shohar in islam –

Behtarin shohar in islam – Assalam alaikum readers ! agar app janna chahte hai ke islam me behtarin shohar kise kaha gaya hai , shohar ke huqooq in quran hadess , behtarin shohar kise kehte hai aur kese bante hai vagirah to apka deenitalim.com par isteqbal hai is post ko compleatly read kare inshallah apke doubts clear ho jayenge aur apne ilm-deen me mazeed ijafa kare..

Acche shohar ki pehchan kya hai ?

Ek mard accha shohar tab banta hai jab voh apni biwi ki har chhoti-badi

jimmedariyon ko ba-asani apna farz samajh kar unhe pura karta hai. apni hesiyat ke mutabiq

uski tamam tar jaruriyat ko pura karta hai uski chhoti-

badi galtiyon ko nazar andaz kar uske sath nibha karne ki

bhar-pur koshish karta hai biwi ki jazbaat ki qadr vo

uski izzat karta ho isi tarah chizon ko lekar us par tanqeed na karne wala

mard ki pehchan ek acche shohar ki fehrist me aata hai. Biwi ke huqooq –

Yad rakhiye jo mard apni biwi se be-parwahi ya la-talooqi ka mujahira karte hai unke nan-nfqa ka khayal nahi

rakhte use apne haal par chhod dete hai kisi bimari ya mushkilat me uska sath nahi dete to aese mard (shohar)

gunahgar kehlate hai aur baroze qayamat un par

allah ajowazl qahar vo azab me mubtila kar unhe saja dega.

Madine ke tajdar hum gunahgaro ke gamgusar shafai noor

payare aaqa sallallahu tala alaihi wali wassalam ne farmaya ke aurat zaat ko hazrate adam alaihis salam ki

pasliyon se banaya gaya hai aur voh bhi sabse thedhi

(टेढ़ी) pasli se isliye agar koi mard thedhi (टेढ़ी) pasli ko sidhi karne ki jurrat karega to pasli ki haddi tut jayegi

lekin sidhi hargiz na hogi thik isi tarah agar koi shakhs

apni biwi ko qaboo karne ki koshish karega to vo tut

jayegi yani talaq ki naubat aan padegi lihaza apni biwiyon ko sidhi ya unhein badalne ki koshish hargiz na kare

apni mardana soch us par na thope balki use uski aebo

ke sath tasleem kare aur usse fayeda uthaye use khush

rakhe aur sath hi khud bhi pur sukoon zindagi basar kare.

Behtarin shohar in islam -

Behtarin shohar kise kahte hai ?

  • Allah vo uske mehboob ke nazdik behtar shohar wahi hai jo apni aurat (biwi) ke sath narmi vo khush-ikhlaqi , husn e sulook ka mujahira karta hai.Behtarin shohar in islam me vo shakhs hai jo apni biwi ke har huqooq ko bina kisi kotahi ke farz samajh kar ada kare.
  • Apni biwi se is tarah mohabbat kare ki uske alawa har dusri aurat par uski nigah bhi na uthe aur agar nazar pad bhi jaye to apni nazrein fer le.
  • Behtarin shohar wahi kehlata hai jo apne aur uske liye har chiz me barabri ka sharik manta ho mslan- dualat , shohrat , aish aur aram.
  • Jo banda kabhi bhi apni biwi par zulm na karta ho wo ek shohar kehlata hai.
  • Apni biwi ki bad-ikhlaqi aur bad-jubani par sabr kare aur apne gusse ko control me rakhe
  • Allah ke rassol ne farmaya ke jo shakhs apni biwi ki baton par sabr karta hai to use sabr-e-ayyub ka sawab milta hai subhanallah !
  • Jo shohar apni biwi ko parda me rakh uski tamam tar
  • jarurat ko pura kar uski izzat o abru ki hifazat karte hai vo ek behtarin shohar kehlata hai.

Biwi ke liye shohar ke farz –

  • Apni biwi ko nek kam vo nek amal karane ki hamesha uski islah kare aur use haq halal ki rozi khilaye.
  • Behtarin humsafar wahi hota hai jise dekh khuda ki yaad aa jaye.
  • Jab tak shohar nek vo parhezgar nahi banta tab tak biwi bhi parsa nahi banti
  • isliye ek dusre ki islah kare neki ki dawat de aur burai se roke.
  • Shohar aur biwi ka rishta libas ki tarah hai ek dusre ki izzat kare aur shohar ko chahiye ki biwi ko zaleel vo ruswai se bachaye aur bhi bhi apne shohar ki aibon ki pasdari kare aur apne libas ko pak aur saf rakhe.
  • Best ya behtar voh shohar hai jo apni biwi par kharch kare bakhili vo kanjoosi hargiz na kare.
  • Apni biwi ko gunah karne se roke aur use deen ki taqeed karta rahe.
  • Shohar apni biwi ke maike uske ghar walo aur biwi se jude
  • tamam rishtedaron ki izzat kare aur unke sath accha sulook kare.

Behtarin shohar in islam –

Voh mard shohar kehlane ke layeq hi nahi hai jo apni biwi ko pyar na de sake uski izzat na kar sake shohar ka

matlab hargiz ye nahi ke bas hum huqm sadir kare aur vo

hamari har jaruraton ko pura kare main kahu ke ek

pair pe khade ho jao to biwi ne khada hi rehna hai aese shohar banne se bache app payare aaqa ki zindagi ke

bare jante hi honge ki unhone apna har chhota-bada kaam khud hi

anjam diya karte the hatta ke ek gilas pani bhi

peena ho to khud le kar nosh farmate lekin hum kyu nahi aesa karte kyu itna raub aur dabdaba gharon ke andar

chalate hai kyu apne bacchon ke sath narmi se paish nahi

aate biwi ki kamon me uski madad nahi karte

Kyu na hum huzur sallallahu alaihi wali wasallam ki sunnaton

par amal karte hue apni biwi ke sath husn sulook kare apne bacchon

se pyar vo mohabbat ke sath paish aaiye ghar me stress ka mahol na banaye ek dusre ki galti

aur kotahiyon ko nazarandaz kar khushnuma mahol banaye apni biwi ko dusre ke aasre hargiz na rakhe uski har

jimmedari puri kare gaali ladai jhagde fasad

se apne ghar ka sukoon hargiz na barbad kare.

Allah tala ne shohar ko itni taqat di hai ke voh apni biwiyon

ko narmi aur mohabbat ke sath samjha sake use

parde me rakhe use kisi ka ahsan na lene de kisi ke samne ruswa na kare kyunki jis tarah shohar ki izzat uski

biwi ke liye aham hai usi tarah biwi ko bhi chahiye ke shohar ki na-farmani na kare.

Conclusion :-

Aaj humne is post me ye jana ke mard behtarin shohar kese ban sakta hai jisse uski aakhirat aur duniya dono me hi bhalai ho jaye allah ajowazl bhi razi hoi jaye aur duniya me bhi app sukoon vo itminan ki zindagi guzar sakte

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