Bacchon ki parvarish islam –

Bacchon ki parvarish islam – Assalam alaikum nazreen ! Agar app ye janna chahte hai ke aulad ki tarbiyat ka islamic tarika kya hai ? , hame apne baccho ki parvarish kis tarah karni chahiye apne baccho ki buri adat ko kese

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Meri sabhi khawateen hazraat se guzarish ye hai ke apni aulad ko aesi talim farahum karo

jiske jariye tum jannat me ja sako , jannat me jane ka jariya banao

na ki jahunnum me jane ka sabab banao !

Walidain apni aulad ki tarbiyat kese kare ?

Bacche sabse pehle apne ghar se sikhte hai , gharo ke mahol se vo sochne

lag jate hai vo jo bhi sikhte hai apne maa aur

baap ko dekh kar sikhte hai isliye pehle khud ko badle agar app sahi honge

to beshak apka baccha bhi galat nahi

hoga aaiye jane ke hame apne gharo me kesa mahol create karna chahiye aur kya nahi karna chahiye…

Aulad jo bhi sikhta hai apne ghar aur maa-baap se sikhta hai

isliye jaan lijiye apka rawaiya jesa hoga apke

bacche bhi wese hi honge jis ghar ke maa-baap nek vo parhezgar hua karte hai to us ghar ke aulad bhi bahut

sensible vo understanding hote hai

Bacchon ki parvarish islam -

Baccho ki tarbiyat ka tarika –

Nek aurat ki nishaniya –

  • Walidain (parents) ek chiz ka khayal hamesha rakhe , kabhi bhi apne bacchon ke samne ladai jhagda ya fasad bazz auraton ki aadat hoti hai hargiz na kare
  • Bacchon ke samne miya biwi aehtaraman mohabbat se paish aaye ek dusre ki beizzati hargiz na kare
  • Unke samne gali-galoz hargiz na de kynki bacche jo sunte hai vo unhe yaad rehta hai aur jo dekhte hai vo kabhi nahi bhulte dil ke kisi kone me vo baat jehnashin ho jati hai so is baat ka khayal rakhe.
  • Dusre logo ki burai aulad ke samne karne se parhez kare
  • Unke samne allah vo uske rasool ki batein kare unhe deeni hikayat sacchi waqiat sunaye
  • Bacchone ke samne nek amal kare taki vo neki ki taraf ruzoo kare
  • T.v. darama nach-gane se apne ghar ko mehfuz kare
  • Sabse ahamtarin chiz jisse bachhe sabse jayada mutasir hote hai so isme ahtiyat barte aur vo shai hai gussa agar hum bacchon ke samne chhoti-chhoti baton par gussa karenge to vo bhi gussa karna sikh jayenge
  • isliye apne gusse par controll rakhiye aur apne bacchon ke samne khush-ikhlaqee ka muzahira kare.
  • Jo biwi apne shohar se chilla-chilla kar batein karti hai to baccha bhi maa ki hi tarah chhillana shuru kar deta hai.

Apne bacchon ko kya sikhana chahiye ? Bacchon ki parvarish islam –

Bacche us kore kagaz ka name hai ke jis par ek dafa jo likh diya jaye to phir use mitaya ya badla nahi ja sakta

aulad us saaf dil hasti ka name hai , apne jo ek dafa

uske dil me baate dal di to vo hamesha uske dil me dala

rahega isliye apne baccho ko deen ki taleem do unhe kahaniyon ke taur par sahaba ke

waqiat sunao fatima zohra

ki dastan sunao imame hussain ka waqia payare aaqa sallallahu tala alaihi wali wasallam ki sakhawat kis tarah log un

par jano dil se fida the unka waqia sunao isi tarah zihad ki batein

sikhao kese islam ke liye kai logo ne qurbani di

ye sab batein apne apni aulad ko sikhani hai jo unke liye duniya vo aakhirat me unke liye nafa bakhsh ho.

Apne aulad ke dil me ishq-e-rasool jarur paida kare

shahanshe nabi shafai noor aaqa kareem rasool sallallahu

tala alaihi wali wasallam ne farmaya ki sabse pehle apne baccho

ko ishqe mohabbat sikhao kyunki jiske dil me

ishqe rasool mauzood hoga vo kabhi nahi bigdega ghar ke mahol ka asar bachon par padta hai isliye apne ghar ko deeni mahol banaye.

Aulad ke liye deenitalim kyu jaruri hai ?

Har maa-baap ki ye jimmedari hai ke vo apne bacchon ko deenitalim hasil karwaye kyunki isme walidain ka bhi

bhala hai aur us bacche ke liye bhi bhalai hai aese maa baap

be-hisab jahannum me jayenge jinhone apne baccho

ko deenitalim ilme-deen nahi sikhai yaad rakhiye deenitalim hasil

karna hum sab par farz hai agar kisi ke

waqlidain is duniya se guzar jaye to aulad hi vo ek matr jariya hota hai jo unke liye magfirat ki dua mang sake

unke liye sadqa jariya kar unke liye isale sawab kar sake ,

nek aulad ke bayes hi walidain jannat ja sakte hai so

apne bacchon ko dunyavi taleem ke sath-sath deenitalim bhi jarur sikhaye.

Aulad ki tarbiyat ka islamic tarika – Bacchon ki parvarish islam –

Walidain aakhir apni aulad ki tarbiyat

Aulad ki tarbiyat ka islamic tarika – Bacchon ki parvarish islam –

Walidain aakhir apni aulad ki tarbiyat kese kare ki taribiyat ka haq ada ho jaye to aaiye jane…

Huzur aqram shafai noor do alam ke sarkar jannat ke sardar rasullallah sallallahu tala alaihi wali wasallam ne

irshad farmaya apne aulad ko 3 batein sikho agar tumne ye 3 batein apni aulad ko sikhai to tumne tarbiyat ka haq ada kar diya vo 3 batein kya hai aaiye jane –

  1. Teen baton me sabse pehli baat jo aaqa kareem ne batai vo ye hai ke apni aulad ko mohabbat-e- rasool sikhao ishq-e-mustafa sikhao yahi tarbiyat ka pehla hissa hai kyunki jiske dil me ishq-e-rasool mauzood hoga vo kabhi gunah ke taraf mayel nahi hoga ishq-e-rasool ke bina iman ho hi nahi sakta nabi ki mohabbat me itni barkat hai ke banda sabse maaldar ban jata hai huzur ki mohabbat fakiro ko ameer kar deti hai , jahil ko aalim bana deti hai aulad ke samne nabi ka zikr hamesha kare.
  2. Dusri baat jo aaqa kareem ne batai vo ye hai ke apni aulad ke dil me nabi ke ahle-bait ki mohabbat paida karo
  3. Aur tisri baat apne quran mazeed ki mohabbat apne aulad ke dil me paida karo

Ye 3 batein apne aulad ke dil me har walidain jarur paida kare taki apki aulad nek vo parhezgar ban sake deendar ho sake.

Aulad ki parwarish ka behtarin tarika – Bacchon ki parvarish islam –

Har maa-baap ko ye jan lena chahiye ke bachpan me jo bhi hum acchi ya buri adatein unke dil me paida karte hai to vo bacchon me pukhta ho

jati hai aur voh umar bhar nahi chhutti so is baat ka khayal rakhe aur lazmi taur par apni aulad ki acchi tarbiyat

kare upar bataye gaye baton par amal kare baaz dafa kai

maaon ka ye kehna hota hai ki bada hokar khud samajhdar ho jayega ya khud sudhar jayega lekin aesa kehne

wale log aksar mustaqbil me apni-apni aulad se

ruswa hote hai aur unki kartoot par matam karte hai nihayat hi jaruri hai

ke agar baccho ki koi shararat ya buri adat dekhe to us par fori taur par us amal ko roke

aur na mane to shakhti ke sath paish aaiye hamesha apne

bacchon ki hosla afzai kare na ki har waqt tanqeed kare aese me bacche ke dil me walidain ke liye galat-fehmi panapne lagti hai.

Conclusion :-

Walidain kis tarah apni aulad ki parwarish ya tarbiyat kare iske bare me humne jo bhi chand jaruriyat batein batai hai agar app in baton ka khayal rakhenge to inshallah apki aulad nek vo farman ban jayegi inshallah har

maa baap par farz hai ke vo apni auald ko deenitalim sikhaye uski tarbiyat behtarin kare aur apni aulad ka haq ada kare jo walidain apni aulad ka haq ada nahi karte to vo gunahgar hote hai is tarah ki mazeed posts padhne ke liye deenitalim.com ke site par visit kare..Allah Nigehban !